Thankful For Small Wins
There are days when I feel like I accomplished so little, I’m embarrassed! It’s been a tough year, as I’ve navigated the humbling world of ‘grieving’. I’ve learned so much about the world around me and even more about the strength I have, which I can only believe came from God.
SOME DAYS ARE JUST HARD
But honestly, there were days that were dark and heavy. I ached, and felt lethargic, and cried. It hampered any ability I had to function normal. In fact, writing all but came to a stop. Still, most of the time I had the presence of mind, because of my faith, to remember to thank the Lord for getting me through.
It’s hard to remember to be thankful when you’re hurting, angry, frustrated, or even sad and confused. We become so focused on where we are, we can’t seem to see through it! Thankfulness in this place, doesn’t come easy, but it should.
THANKFUL IN OUR CIRCUMSTANCE
God’s Word doesn’t tell us to be thankful for the circumstance we are in, but to be thankful that He is there with us to get us through! Grieving isn’t nearly the only thing that can bring a person to their knees. There are so many, it’s mind boggling. Financial stress, illness, homelessness, fears of failure, relationships—which can be between spouses, children, or extended family members; seniors struggling with memory issues and other illnesses, and more; all of which weigh heavy on our hearts and ultimately, even create physical stress and breakdowns.
Another area where darkness tends to reside is in the world of disabilities. When our bodies or intellect doesn’t operate just the way it’s supposed to, it’s easy to become frustrated and angry with the world, and even angry at God. Even those with a strong faith can falter.
WILL IT EVER GET BETTER?
We keep telling ourselves we’ll feel better when things get better. We’ll be on top of the world when we have enough money, a new house, a promotion, a new job, or if I can ever master the world with my disability!
Our lives are not dependent on the end of a difficult season. Sometimes the ‘season’ causing all the strife isn’t going to get better, but that doesn’t mean we have to miss all the joy in life. Sometimes we just have to be thankful for the small wins we accomplish; and this applies to both those with a disability, caregivers, and those who are just having a tough time, even when it’s hard!
GRATITUDE MATTERS
But gratitude matters. Sometimes the smallest win, seems to create a bigger impact. It’s not about ignoring the challenges creating the havoc in our lives. It’s remembering to notice the small victories, like showing up; for the equipment which helps get us through the day; having a moment of quiet which allows for ‘regrouping’ and knowing you’re trying.
It’s also about living a life of acceptance and in it finding the joy in spite of the pain. No one’s life is perfect. We all have problems, although some may seem greater than others. But often we can’t see anyone else’s suffering, because we are so wrapped up in our own.
THANKFUL FOR THE SMALL WINS
But when we can be instrumental in compassion (both giving and receiving), having a connection with others and even notice the small moments of achievements as they happen each day, we can find joy. It’s about remembering that you are unique and special, and that you are deeply loved, just as you are, without any conditions. You were created by a Master hand, and that is plenty good enough, for a moment of thanksgiving!